Get More Dates With Quality Men
Ok, so once you've awakened and reconnected deeply with your feminine energy, you might be thinking "Now what?"
The Attraction Alignment approach to men starts with a powerful secret to align your entire vibe with your newly reawakened feminine energy.
This is extremely simple, practical, and you can starting doing it right away.
It gets you IMMEDIATE benefits in your dating life by making your feminine energy shine brightly to men and do all the "work" for you.
This secret automatically screens out lazy losers (without you even needing to know who's a loser and who's not).
It automatically calls out to the very best in high quality men.
And it helps you find your Mr. Right FASTER by doing LESS.
You can start using this secret right now in under 1 second, and it takes no skill or experience at all.
Are you ready for this forgotten feminine secret?
Here it is: Don't chase men.
It's that easy.
But it's also tricky...
...because if you're like I was, and like almost every woman I mentor, you don't realize how you ARE chasing, which makes it impossible to stop.
I'll show you how in just a second, though first I want to reassure you that absorbing a "chasing" mindset is an understandable byproduct of being a successful woman in the modern world.
Plus, no one teaches women about the problems with chasing anymore, or even talks about it, so don't feel bad if you don't yet know what I'm talking about!
But right now you're about to discover the power of this feminine secret.
You'll see how EASILY you can attract more high quality men...
...And have so much more FUN than chasing (and let the men have more fun chasing you!)
And here's a little preview of what's in store for you if you recognize patterns of chasing and learn to attract instead...
This is from a mentee explaining what attracting feels like:
Mabye you're not in need for a bunch of groceries (LOL!), but doesn't this sound nice?
Let's look at how you can experience men taking the lead towards you, too.
Do You Chase Men?
It takes a process of realization to see your behavior in a new way and to stop an unconscious, ingrained pattern.
So, for a few examples of chasing ask yourself if you've ever done any of these?
My guess is that you see yourself in some of these...
But you might be thinking "Well, if I'm not supposed to do any of this, what the heck else is there to even do?"
If you're reacting this way, you're deep into a chasing mindset like a fish in water...
And I'm here to tell you Attraction Alignment holds SO MUCH MORE for you than you can even imagine!
Just you wait!
But before we get there, you really need to get this (Sorry if it hurts!):
Look at the man's unconscious perspective when you chase him: "She's reaching out to me, prompting me, initiating, prodding me to move, pushing me to take things to the next level. It must be because she doesn't think she's worthy enough for me to want to pursue her."
That might have hurt. I'm sorry! But that's really the signal chasing sends to men.
Chasing hides your innate attractiveness, and drives away high quality men.
Ghosting Explained
It's true, chasing feeds into the "desperate vibe" women fear they give off even if they don't quite know why.
And in my experience, I would say 60% of women's experiences of a man ghosting or falling off the radar is because of this chasing vibe.
Chasing him fills up the space he needs to chase YOU!
The other reasons men ghost might be they just don't feel a vibe with you, they're lazy, or they had something big come up and don't want to explain.
But the reason doesn't really matter, and on the next page you'll learn why it doesn't matter and how to become immune to ghosting.
But first, you need to understand that if you're chasing a man, he might stick around (for a while) because he's a loser enjoying the free entertainment.
But he'll bail once the pressure to take it to the next level gets too high, or he finds a more "entertaining" woman who comes with no strings attached.
Chasing finds only losers like this, and is a losing way find your Mr. Right!
Now you might be thinking, "How is this fair? Why can't I initiate if he's being slow?"
All I can say is sorry babe, I don't make the rules! I just teach what works to find a high quality man.
But at the same time, I think as you continue to learn about Attraction Alignment, it will begin to make sense... and you'll feel more yourself with men than you ever have before (almost all of the women I mentor say this)!
So what to do instead of chasing?
How To Attract: Do "Nothing"
Here's how the conversation with many mentees goes at this point:
Mentee: Ok Leila, I see now I might be chasing men, so what do I do to attract instead?
Leila: You don’t do anything.
Mentee: What do you mean?
Leila: Just stop chasing.
Mentee: Surely there’s SOMETHING I can do instead?
Leila: Nope.
Mentee: That doesn’t make any sense. You want me to switch from chasing to attracting, right?
Leila: Not exactly.
Mentee: I’m not getting it.
Leila: Attracting is not a different thing “to do” instead of chasing. Attracting is BEING. You’re already attractive to men because you ARE a woman, so if you're growing in connecting with your feminine energy you're right where you need to be. If you want to think about “doing” things, don’t think about men. It might include some inner work and healing which we'll talk about, but it mainly means doing things that make you feel MORE yourself, and more connected with your feminine energy, more embodied with yourself.
Mentee: Ok like what?
Leila: If that's more time on your hair in the mornings, do it. If it’s making art, do that. Yoga, reading, coffee with friends, old hobbies and interests to pick back up, whatever. Just enjoy yourself! If you’re doing anything to try to impress or please a man, you’ve missed it and turned back to chasing. Men will be more attracted to you the more you aren't concerned about attracting them. Just be yourself, feel what you feel, live in the moment, and enjoy your life. They'll LOVE it!
Here's What Attraction Aligned Dating Looks Like
So with Attraction Alignment, here's what dating looks like instead of chasing:
- Being happy, smiling, warm, and at ease
- Being busy enjoying your life whether he takes 3 minutes to text back or 3 days
- Feeling at peace when a man deselects himself from a chance to win your heart (it's his loss!)
- Leaning back and observing during conversations since you know he is the one auditioning for a place in your life (much more on "auditioning" in a minute)
- Noticing what agenda HE is setting for conversation
- Being in touch with how he's making you feel
- Feeling at ease with positive and negative emotions, expressing your needs and desires honestly in the moment
- Feeling playful and laughing, having fun with banter, mystery, and tingling tension between you
- Expressing desires and requests (like "I'd like to be picked up") without expectation, and enjoying letting him meet them (this makes you MORE exciting to a man than trying to be "impressive" or "entertaining")
- Generously expressing gratitude and excitement when receiving his attention, initiative, or gifts (this is like food to a man's soul)
- Revealing your preferred sexual boundaries and standards and holding to them with total security
- Feeling what's true for you, regardless of his mood
- Being pleased and ready when he moves the relationship towards marriage
Sound's awesome, doesn't it?
But can you imagine a loser man putting up with this?
He wants you to do all the work, he wants you to put on a show for him (until he gets bored).
So this "attractive," leaned-back posture feels like a million-mile tall wall he has ZERO interest in climbing, and he won't be bothering you any more once he gets one whiff of it.
And here's why the "Don't Chase" Feminine secret is so powerful: at the same time it repels lazy losers, it ATTRACTS masculine, energetic men looking for a woman who knows she's worth winning.
Staying attractive (ie not chasing) shows you who's a "loser" and who's "high quality" without you needing to do anything,,.
Check out this text from a mentee in Denmark showing this attraction secret in action:
Isn't that amazing!?!?
Look closely:
One loser out of the picture with lightning speed! Good riddance, I'm not looking for a taxi driver!
And one high quality man shows himself and starts his chase!
Stone cold efficiency with losers AND hot romantic pursuit from a potential Mr. Right, all unlocked by a single, powerful shift in behavior to stay aligned with your feminine energy!
I love it!
Can you see how you can do this?
Aligning your behavior with your natural attractiveness says to a man, subconsciously: "There's a prize right here. Come and see if you have what it takes to win!"
Masculine men are energized by a challenging goal so your attractive posture gives quality men a laser target to focus their competitive energy and efforts toward (they love this).
They'll want to WIN... YOU!
But now it's your turn...
...because the men that chase you might be in a class above the losers, many might even be great and admirable men, but which one is "The One" for you?
"Vetting" is how to find out, and it all starts with a simple and really fun dating mindset shift I'll share with you on the next page...
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